Coffee Hour: How You Know He Is Into You
When he hits you up between the hours of 12pm and 5pm, you can tell he is thinking about you during his work day.
He asks for a second date before the 1st date is even over, he is trying to pre-book your time so you can't make up any excuses.
When he gets creative on the first date. Concerts, museums, bowling, amusement parks, etc. are very uncommon dates, but they take planning and thought. It shows he is making the effort.
When your name is not foreign to his friends. When a guy talks about you amongst his friends and confidants, you know you snagged him.
He’s very anxious about celebrating special occasions with you. If he plans something for your birthday or quality time on the holidays, there should be no doubt he is into you.
Every now and then, he will find a chance to ask you what type of guy you are attracted to and are looking for in a partner. He is trying to see if you guys are a match. The man is trying to fit into your picture perfect life.
He listens to the smallest things you mention, like favorite songs or artists. He remembers your friends' names. The guy actually remembers your sign. The smallest things are very important to know if you have the right guy.
He goes above and beyond just to please you. Like if he sees a movie a second time after he really didn't like it. It shows that he is willing to do what ever just to be in your company.
He appears unexpectedly. He likes you a lot if he shows up out of nowhere. He can only do that if he has been asking people about your schedule, or he has been paying attention to where you are going and at what time. Can be a little stalkerish, but its a clear sign he is interested.
If a guy bends his personality to mesh with yours, he is trying to mold himself into what you want. In other words he is trying to compromise.
You know he is into when he is planning the times you guys hang out. Men are naturally passive creatures, so if he takes control of the planning he is trying to be a part of your life.
If you guys discuss future life plans early on in the relationships, then he's basically putting all of his cards on the table so you know what he expects. It shows the lack of interest in playing mind games.